Haven’t written on this space in more than a month now, and I have almost lost all words for myself to speak beyond work.
It’s been crazy though as a fresh graduate, having work to keep oneself busy can be seen as a privilege. So that I am grateful. At the same time, however, I really do think I can cut myself some slack and slow down just a little bit to breathe.
No longer can I have a main list of projects stuck to my wall because not being able to cancel them off after completion makes me feel unfulfilled. I have swapped to “every day to-do lists” to feel more accomplished and less self-defeating. I have also been slightly better at making choices based on what should be my priority, like family, even though those decisions may cause me a setback in the grand scheme of things. I decided to give myself a try and to dive into conversations with people I might not even know.
So I guess I am learning and this tiredness is a small price to pay for all the experiences I have gained.
The tiredness also helps me sleep, which is a complete bonus.
Anyway, I have been thinking a lot and here are just some of them that I feel I can somewhat frame them in language:
Even though major festivals are seen as major only in their designated fields, it really keeps the audience confined instead of trying to grow them.
So, for example, if you are a film person, you would already to following the social media pages or have access to information necessary to know when SGIFF is going to happen. Similar to the other events that happen, such as SIFA, SDW, etc.
And I was thinking, if we can have a major calendar that consists of all these festivals and festivities for the nation to access, it might spark interest and curiosity. Eventually may even lead to new audience giving it a try.
Just like how there’s a major calendar announcement for long weekends and public holidays, can’t we also have that done for all the major festivals in Singapore?
Worth a try since some people don’t attend certain things not because of disinterest, but because of lacking information.
I have been struggling with this a lot. As I am older now, I feel like a lot of my prior understanding to things are greatly influenced by accessibility, by colonisation and by internalised standards.
Currently, I am reading a book about Patti Smith and her collection of work. Her roots and belief in punk culture, her choice to reclaim the “archaic term nigger”. And I was so struck by her accessibility to resources and the privilege to choose this route, be successful and be known to the world. To be free. To build Rock n Roll culture and simply roll with whatever she wanted.
I started wondering about the black people, the asians who are starting all over again after the various wars and the fucked up situations that simply keep happening. Be it from discrimination, human emotions, bullying or plain gaslighting, among other things.
And my thoughts went to why some narratives are repeated more than others? Why are we so struck by white success stories so much more when they made themselves have the upper hand all along? Why do we support that by covering their people more often than our own?
KPIs can only go so far and all it does is encourage you to keep building that skewed perception of excellence and accomplishment, when really resources can be going into building our own people up.
Writing has become a business and people need to survive, sure, I get it. But maybe it can be a matter of balance? And I think some causes are worth the effort to build and to introduce to the world.
What we cover in the media is what we are telling people should matter. And with that power, maybe we have to look past initial analytics to serve a smaller community, keep at it and eventually the numbers will come.
That’s how all communities grow. Just have to give it a chance.
And since it is Chinese New Year, friendly gambling happens within families. Just for the fun of it and to try your luck sometimes.
Every hand is different, naturally. Some people end up losing way more than others. Others, might simply keep winning.
Though the starting hand is different among every one and the starting point is not the same, we all still abide by the same rules and risk and bet all the same. We recognise and accept the risk, the unfairness and still choose to go for it.
If you don’t like it, you simply choose to not play.
And this is so much like life, at this point. The more I think, the more I feel like I am stuck in a simulation and constantly question myself why I choose to play. What is the point? And surprise, there is no point.
It is just a question of whether you can make this whole life thing work and mean something to you to keep going.
Chance. Risk. Gamble gamble gamble.
So take a gamble. Take risks that you feel may be worth it, and the rewards may come. Otherwise having tried is good enough.
Then try again.
And I think if I view life this way, I might have the motivation to just keep myself alive for a while longer.